BIG thing called Marriage!!!!!!!!!

This blog is dedicated to all the females who are “Single and not ready to Mingle” (no offense to you guys)

Why the hell is marriage important? Why is it that I can’t be “ME”? Why leave everything for someone? Will he ever realize what all I have left? I never understood why people marry? I always opposed the idea of marriage. I just feel, why be miserable when you are happy. Why does the society mean so much? Society (as the dictionary defines is an organized group of people associated together for religious, benevolent, cultural, scientific, political, patriotic, or other purposes). I have seen people do things just because “log kya kahege”. I don’t know a single female who is happy being married. The struggle of coming up to the level (society decided for you) goes on and on. It starts from the day you are born. You are supposed to study well, behave well, dress well, talk well, eat well, and grow well. ‘How well’ is this “WELL”, is decided by our society.

Life is so unpredictable these days. Earlier marriage were made in heaven and there was a happily ever after. But in today’s world of fast life, and when everyone is independent, financially as well as emotionally, its difficult getting along. Women around me are independent, brilliant in their fields but does that mean she will go home after work and rest? The answer is “NO”, she has her duties as a mother, wife, and daughter-in-law; and believe me our society won’t even give her permission to complain or think otherwise. On top of that, no matter how much she works for the family, they will still fall short of her services. She will never be able to reach up to their expectations.

Females are far more stronger than men, but her strengths were always overlooked, just because she was an “emotional fool”. Her respect for the ones she loved was mistaken as her weakness. Her forgiving attitude was considered as her idiocy. That’s how there were no divorces, no fights, as the fairer sex was fairly kind. But as the women’s liberation began, things changed. That so-called weak female came back with vengeance and attacked the age old “male chauvinism”. So many people worked for equality rights, uplifting of women in the past and the irony is most of them were men. But alas, men still can’t take equal rights. Why the hell did you give her the right, when you were not comfortable? Pretending that you are happy the way females are progressing but still are offended by her confidence and new found freedom. For God sake, stop making her life hell.........